A user’s vent about a date canceling just hours before with a flippant message ignites heated discussion over modern dating etiquette. While many call out the behavior as rude and inconsiderate, others argue that unforeseen circumstances like illness could justify the last-minute change. The thread dives into frustrations over unclear communication, respect for people’s time, and the sting of feeling undervalued—prompting a wave of shared stories about similar dating letdowns.