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After six months of downsizing my life to fit inside an SUV, it’s finally time to leave Rhode Island. The problem? Right before I left, Rhode Island gave me the summer of a lifetime.
In the first episode of Dating America, I’m talking about the heartbreak that comes with choosing to leave a life you actually love—the friends, the familiarity, the memories, and the nagging question: Am I making a mistake?
Maybe Rhode Island is home. Maybe it isn’t. I don’t actually need to know yet. Nothing about this adventure is permanent.
But I’ve spent my whole life dating the same place. I think it’s time I see other people.
And so, Dating America begins.
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What if finding home worked a little like dating?
After spending 34 years in the smallest state in America, Rhode Island, I packed everything I could fit into my SUV and hit the road—living…
There will be first dates, red flags, questionable decisions, great food, queer adventures, heartbreak, and hopefully a little chemistry. But the real relationship I’m exploring is with the places themselves.
I’m dating cities, lifestyles, communities, and different versions of myself—asking what makes somewhere worth building a life in and what it really means to feel at home.
Maybe I’ll fall in love with a place. Maybe I’ll fall in love along the way. Maybe I’ll end up right back where I started.
I don’t know yet.
That’s the point.
This is Dating America.