What happens when your dating app match turns out to be someone else's husband? This week, Natalie shares her jaw-dropping experience matching with a local firefighter who seemed great on paper—suggesting morning coffee dates and regular phone communication—until her friend's detective skills revealed he was married with kids and had just returned from Disney World with his family!

We dive into the dark underbelly of dating apps, where married men create elaborate personas as single dads to pursue affairs. The story sparks a deeper conversation about whether to tell someone their spouse is cheating, and why some partners stay despite betrayal. "Break that stigma," Marissa challenges. "Why doesn't she want to leave him? He's a pig!" 

Despite these horror stories, we acknowledge dating apps do work for many—including our friend Nichol who's getting married to someone she met online. The key is maintaining boundaries and trusting your instincts about red flags.

The conversation shifts to mental health as Maressa shares her decision to return to therapy, emphasizing that therapy isn't just for crisis moments but ongoing self-improvement. "For me, therapy is ongoing," she explains. "I've been working so hard on bettering myself." Natalie reflects on her three-year relationship with her therapist, discussing how the frequency of sessions has evolved over time.

As summer approaches, we're planning adventures including a return to Spain—not just for fun, but to hold a memorial for our father, allowing friends who were like family to properly mourn him. Join us next week for a special episode featuring letters we've written to ourselves and each other!

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