In this episode I discuss how it is being separated and trying to get back into the dating world. After years of living in Surrey a predominantly white county, how does a middle aged black man get back to the dating world. What’s it like to date black again. How easy is it to make a meaningful connection with someone who’s from a different race. My thoughts regarding why I married outside my race. Rarely discussed topic, regarding the difficulties is belonging on n a place where, you will always feel like an illegal alien.