Dating in Kampala feels less like romance and more like a survival strategy dressed up in aesthetics. From influencers selling soft life and pseudo-trad wife dreams, to toxic red-pill content flooding TikTok and WhatsApp groups, the landscape of modern love has never been messier.In this episode, we unpack:The rise of trad-wife culture and influencer “stay-at-home girlfriend” vibes.The 50/50 debate — love vs. economics, and how pay gaps reshape relationships.Talking stages, situationships, and the death of “courtship.”Is marriage an achievement — or just added labour for women? (the care gap).Identity in relationships and love dilemmas unique to Kampala’s messy eco-system.We dig into the scandals, the culture shifts, and the real-life contradictions shaping how we date, love, and survive today.It’s not therapy, but it might help.👉🏾 Subscribe & follow us:Instagram:⁠ @sheknowsbestpod⁠TikTok: @sheknowsbestpod