You can love Jesus, crave marriage, and still quietly settle for “good enough” because you’re tired of starting over. In this car‑ride conversation, I sit down with my cousin Macy (fresh off her bachelorette trip) to talk honestly about dating, discernment, and how she went from Sunday‑only faith to a real walk with God in college.

Macy shares how finding community at college, trying different churches, and seeing God show up in her own story prepared her to recognize her fiancé as an answered prayer—not just another guy. They unpack what being “equally yoked” has actually looked like in real life, why past relationships that didn’t work out can still be a gift, and how to tell the difference between “this is my person” and “this is just someone I’m getting coffee with.”

If you’re tired of confusing talking stages, wondering if your standards are too high, or worried you’ll miss who God has for you, this episode will help you breathe, pay attention to the right things, and trust His timing more than your timeline.