Ever felt the gap between what dating apps promise and what your heart actually needs? We open a live Q&A with a simple anchor: if Jesus designed marriage, then love has to look like his—sacrificial, promise-keeping, and tested over time. From the first question—“Am I ready for marriage?”—we trace a straighter path through the noise: dating as data-gathering for a covenant, not a stage for butterflies and curated vibes.

We wrestle with the consumer mindset that trains us to treat people like options and highlight how option fatigue undermines commitment. Instead of profiles and punchy bios, we look for character under pressure, faith practiced in community, and humility that actually repents. We talk frankly about being “equally yoked,” not as gatekeeping but as alignment with purpose: making disciples together, raising future believers, and saying yes to hard, generous acts that outlast fleeting chemistry.

Singleness gets pride of place. Paul’s words about undivided devotion remind us that a full life is not contingent on a wedding date. We explore how waiting can be preparation, how discontent follows you into marriage if Jesus is not enough, and why purpose-driven living beats timeline anxiety. Then we go straight at lust: marriage won’t fix porn or impulse. Formation will—confession, accountability, and boundaries that train desire toward long-term joy. We call out the “just talking” non-commitment loop, and we drill down on opposite-sex friendship boundaries that protect future covenants without demonizing friendship.

Practical? Absolutely. We share clear red and green flags: sobriety, consistency, teachability, church involvement, and how someone handles stress or celebration. We offer a simple filter—friends don’t let friends date strangers—because community reveals what a profile can’t. If you’re tired of swipes and ready for depth, this conversation points to a better way: promise over feelings, formation over fantasy, and mission over mere compatibility.

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