When dating, it’s natural to see all the possibilities in a person, but how wise is it to invest in who someone *could* be rather than who they *are*? In this episode, we explore the concept of “dating potential” — the allure of someone’s future self and the hope that they’ll grow into a better version with time or encouragement. We’ll discuss the difference between healthy optimism and unrealistic expectations, and when it’s beneficial (or risky) to stay in a relationship based on potential alone.

Together, we break down the red flags of dating potential, like losing yourself in someone’s journey or ignoring present incompatibilities. We’ll also cover the positive side: supporting growth without losing your own identity or values. This conversation is for anyone who has ever wondered if they’re holding out for change that may never come, and how to recognize the balance between loving someone as they are and nurturing mutual growth. Tune in to gain clarity on building strong relationships rooted in reality, not just the promise of who someone might become.