In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay keep it all the way real as they unpack the tricky topic of dating someone based on their “potential.” Is it noble… or just naïve?

Now that we’re grown-grown, settling for potential just ain’t cutting it. The aunties get honest about what it really takes to build healthy, fulfilling relationships in your 40s and beyond. From the importance of emotional reciprocity and personal growth to the red flags we too often overlook, they share hard-won wisdom and laugh-through-the-pain moments that will hit home.

They also break down the societal pressure to settle, challenge outdated gender roles, and remind you that your peace should never be up for negotiation.

Whether you’re single, in a situationship, or deep into a long-term love, this one’s for you. Tune in for raw stories, real advice, and a few hard truths about navigating love without losing yourself in the process.