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Dating: Stop Trying To Fix It


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In this episode, Kira talks with Jarratt about their dating experiences. Kira shared how sliding into Jarratt's DM turned into them exploring if they were compatible. Kira shared how she quickly moves between relationships and has learned to slow down to assess if her potential mate is the right fit. Jarratt shared that he made sure his ex was in a good head and heart space before moving on. Jarratt shared the silver lining of dating during the pandemic and how it removed some of the pressures of dating in person. Finally, the two answered the tricky question of who should decide to end a dating situation when it's clear one is unable or unwilling to provide what the other needs. Kira questions her willingness to fight for a relationship and stick through tough times. 

Jarratt and Kira discuss their experience dating each other. Jarratt shared how it was refreshing to lay the cards on the table; yet, the straightforwardness and Kira's assertive approach can turn off the other person if they are not ready or moving at a similar pace. Kira admits that she quickly detaches from people and situations and moves on quickly, can perceive as cold and distant. Jarratt shares how his 'cheat codes' and Kira's 'blueprint' accompanied with their need to fix others, ultimately sabotages their desires for meaningful mutual relationships. Jarratt encourages Kira to exercise patience and provides wise and insightful feedback as she continues accepting applications for #OperationStepdad. 


Guest: Jarratt, It's About Damn Time Podcast

Song Credit: Love 'Em All by K. Michelle

This episode is sponsored by Raw Truth: Stories of Female Infidelity

For more information: https://linktr.ee/Rebecca.rawtruth

Website: www.rawtruthstoriesoffemaleinfidelity.com

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