Are you simply talking about God's promises, or are you DECLARING them? Often, we're just chatting about life, the kids, our spouse, or the job; sometimes, we complain. But there are also times when we are declaring things, maybe good things, possibly bad, over relationships, finances, etc. Words lead our lives... like a rudder. So, learn to speak intentionally to bring things into order and subdue the problems that come at you.