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Day 22 - COMPLETE!
Then, there was Tamar and Amnon, and there are so many lessons we can learn from this horrific story, and this terrible act of incestuous rape, but this story teaches me a valuable difference between LOVE and LUST. Amnon thought he loved Tamar, but after he abused her, he hated her all the more. Why? Because love stays. Lust leaves. If Amnon had been honest with himself, he would’ve escaped death and delivered his sister from a lifelong stigma. But his emotions tricked him into thinking he was in love, when in fact, he was in Lust. At first glance, it may be hard to tell the difference because love and lust are identical twins on the outside, but fraternal foes on the inside. Here are a few practical clues.
If a person treats you liked a leased vehicle, then 9 times out of 10, lust is driving them to your lot. If a person really loves you, they will be patient and kind. Simple as that. Lust, however, is impatient and aggressive. Lust will act now, and listen later. My prayer is that God will help us to peel back the layers of resemblance and identify the differences. I also pray for every Tamar in our churches, in our families, and in our world—-both male and female—-that they might be *completely* free and healed from self-blame, unwarranted guilt and shame.
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Day 22 - COMPLETE!
Then, there was Tamar and Amnon, and there are so many lessons we can learn from this horrific story, and this terrible act of incestuous rape, but this story teaches me a valuable difference between LOVE and LUST. Amnon thought he loved Tamar, but after he abused her, he hated her all the more. Why? Because love stays. Lust leaves. If Amnon had been honest with himself, he would’ve escaped death and delivered his sister from a lifelong stigma. But his emotions tricked him into thinking he was in love, when in fact, he was in Lust. At first glance, it may be hard to tell the difference because love and lust are identical twins on the outside, but fraternal foes on the inside. Here are a few practical clues.
If a person treats you liked a leased vehicle, then 9 times out of 10, lust is driving them to your lot. If a person really loves you, they will be patient and kind. Simple as that. Lust, however, is impatient and aggressive. Lust will act now, and listen later. My prayer is that God will help us to peel back the layers of resemblance and identify the differences. I also pray for every Tamar in our churches, in our families, and in our world—-both male and female—-that they might be *completely* free and healed from self-blame, unwarranted guilt and shame.