Time lets you reflect back on why you did certain things. And I know that after my second divorce I went a little crazy and needed to fix some things that I felt were not correct. However that behavior allowed me to justify other people's current behavior which of course is not good. So in this podcast we're going to talk about why I was able to allow bad behavior in a relationship and how I was able to justify it or convince myself that it was okay. And just to be clear it was not okay.