Ask some difficult questions and you might hear some difficult truths.

My dad was a bon-viveur; always the life and soul of the party.He was funny and a grafter. Transpires my father was violent, homophobic, abusive, controlling, and threatening. He died lonely.

I speak to my mum about what cancer did to her dad (my grandad).

This is a heavy hitter but a worthwhile listen. Topics covered include domestic violence, suicide and alcohol abuse so go in with your eyes (and ears) open.