What’s it like if someone shoots your dad in the head at work? Alex is here to tell us exactly what it is like. His dad was not a military man but instead a solicitor in sleepy Devizes. I try to unravel and understand how the shock of such a tragic crime sends ripples through a group of family, friends and colleagues. Alex and I chat about being seemingly fine when stored up grief will come and hunt you down to remind you to deal with it – often at the most inconvenient times.