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Dealing with Disapproval
Having people disapprove of us, our work, or something we've said can be hard. But there's a way of dealing with it that doesn't send us on a shame or anger spiral, hiding out, and wasting time and energy.
Because at the end of the day, the goal is for you to be fully yourself, to do things your way, and to allow your people to have access to that. They need you at your fullest, not you when you're hiding and careful.
Stop being careful! You are capable of dealing with conflit if it arises, and other people are capable of dealing with their discomfort.
What we don't want to do is waste our time on something that hasn't happened yet (being afraid of disapproval) or something that we have no control over (other people's opinions).
I want your powerful work out there, and that means being okay with whatever people choose to think or say about us.
I hope this is helpful xxx
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By elisabeth pittHaving people disapprove of us, our work, or something we've said can be hard. But there's a way of dealing with it that doesn't send us on a shame or anger spiral, hiding out, and wasting time and energy.
Because at the end of the day, the goal is for you to be fully yourself, to do things your way, and to allow your people to have access to that. They need you at your fullest, not you when you're hiding and careful.
Stop being careful! You are capable of dealing with conflit if it arises, and other people are capable of dealing with their discomfort.
What we don't want to do is waste our time on something that hasn't happened yet (being afraid of disapproval) or something that we have no control over (other people's opinions).
I want your powerful work out there, and that means being okay with whatever people choose to think or say about us.
I hope this is helpful xxx