Dealing with grief and mourning. Two part series We all lose loved ones  to death or separation. We will discuss the difference in the two types of loss and specific practical tools to process the hurtful feelings. Part 1, Feb 1, will deal with death of a loved one. Spiritual Engineering-- the 21st century approach to happiness and relationships.  It applies the scientific procedure to separate symptoms from problems, identify the root problem, evaluate the most effective solution, and then test and verify the results.