Designed 4 More

Dealing with Narcissists: Boundaries, Healing, and Godly Wisdom


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What do you do when the most difficult person in your life is a narcissist?
Whether it's a spouse, parent, coworker, boss, or even someone in your church, navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals can feel confusing, exhausting, and spiritually draining. But you're not alone—and you're not without tools.

In this empowering episode of Designed 4 More, we dive into the complex and often painful world of narcissism. With a Christ-centered lens, our team explores the psychological traits of narcissistic personalities, the spiritual and emotional toll they take, and most importantly, the biblical strategies for setting boundaries, protecting your heart, and finding healing.

We’re here to help you recognize the signs, reclaim your peace, and reflect God’s wisdom and love—even in the face of manipulation, gaslighting, or emotional abuse. Whether you’re recovering from a narcissistic relationship or currently walking through one, this conversation brings clarity, validation, and practical steps forward.


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

·       What narcissism really is—and what it isn’t

·       How to recognize covert vs overt narcissistic behavior

·       Why narcissists often target kind, empathetic, faith-based people

·       How to set healthy boundaries without feeling guilty

·       What Scripture says about dealing with toxic relationships

·       The difference between turning the other cheek and enabling abuse

·       How narcissism affects families, churches, and faith communities

·       Steps for emotional recovery and rebuilding identity after narcissistic trauma

·       When to seek therapy, support, or spiritual counseling

·       How to heal and grow stronger in your walk with God


💬 Questions We Explore:

·       What is narcissistic personality disorder and how does it develop?

·       Why do narcissists often thrive in religious or spiritual environments?

·       How can Christians balance grace and truth when confronting manipulation?

·       What are the spiritual risks of staying in emotionally toxic relationships?

·       How can victims of narcissistic abuse heal and rebuild their self-worth?

·       What role does forgiveness play when dealing with a narcissist?

·       How can family members protect children from narcissistic influence?

·       When is it time to walk away—and how do you do so biblically?

·       Are there biblical examples of narcissistic behavior and how it was handled?

·       What is God’s promise for those recovering from emotional exploitation?


✝️ Biblical Anchors for the Episode:

·       Proverbs 4:23 – “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

·       Matthew 7:15–20 – “Watch out for false prophets… by their fruit you will recognize them.”

·       2 Timothy 3:2–5 – “People will be lovers of themselves… have nothing to do with such people.”

·       Galatians 1:10 – “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God?”

·       James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God…”


Whether you're dealing with a narcissistic parent, trying to survive a marriage with manipulation and gaslighting, or recovering from years of spiritual abuse, this episode is for you. We’ll help you understand the nature of narcissism, equip you with tools to defend your mental and emotional well-being, and remind you of your worth in Christ.

This isn’t just about identifying the problem—it’s about embracing freedom, setting godly boundaries, and walking in healing. Your story is not too far gone. And you're not too broken to be restored.


📬 Got a question for our next Q&A? Email us at: [email protected]


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