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- #57: Travel anxiety, naked adventures and a run-in with Jamaican police
I just got back from seven days at Hedonism II in Jamaica for Swinkation, and while I had an incredible time, behind the scenes I was struggling with some pretty intense anxiety.
In this episode, I'm sharing the side of Toronto Unicorn you don't always see. From travel anxiety and emotional breakdowns to waking up with panic attacks at 4:30 a.m., this vacation pushed me WAY outside my comfort zone.
I'm talking about how cannabis helped me manage my anxiety, the challenges of being naked at a lifestyle resort, completely draining my social battery, and the terrifying moment Jamaican airport security called the police over my luggage!
Sometimes the woman who's fearless in a sex club is the same woman crying on the floor of her hotel room.
This is the real Sarah, and this is how my vacation REALLY went.
**AI disclosure: I used AI to create a summary of this episode by uploading the transcript. I read and approved the summary.Content mentioned in this episode:1. My Swinkation vacation vlog: COMING SOON
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21 min - #56: My big secret, first-time Hedonism nerves & social media drama
Well, it's been a month since my last Dear Diary episode, and holy shit, do I have some updates for you!
First, I'm letting you in on a BIG secret that I haven't shared with my Toronto Unicorn audience yet. I've started taking Ozempic, lost over six pounds, and launched an entirely new podcast documenting my journey with food noise, compulsive eating, and finally feeling like my brain isn't fighting me every time I sit down to eat. And here's the kicker: I'm keeping the whole thing separate from Toronto Unicorn for now. Consider this your exclusive insider information!
I'm also less than 48 hours away from boarding a plane to Jamaica for my very first trip to Hedonism Resort! I'm heading there with my boyfriend for a week of what I'm calling "Swinger Summer Camp," complete with workshops, playrooms, interviews, and two sessions I'll be hosting myself. But as an introvert who isn't exactly comfortable with mandatory nudity, I've got a few nerves about what I'm getting myself into!
And because apparently I didn't have enough going on, I'm dealing with a content creator's worst nightmare: running out of storage space EVERYWHERE. My iPhones, my Dropbox, my external hard drives... all full! I'm sharing the ridiculous behind-the-scenes reality of managing thousands of videos, shooting everything in 4K, and spending a small fortune just to keep my content organized.
Plus, I'm talking about why I've pulled back from Facebook after losing my recommendations and most of my monetization income, and what that means for my motivation to keep creating.
It's a little bit of everything this month: personal revelations, exciting adventures, creator frustrations, and a whole lot of anticipation for what's coming next.
Thanks for being along for the ride. And trust me, the next Dear Diary episode after Hedonism should be a VERY interesting one! 💋
**AI disclosure: I used AI to create a summary of this episode by uploading the transcript. I read and approved the summary.
Content mentioned in this episode:
1. New podcast: Quieting the Food Noise, a GLP-1 Diary with Sarah: https://quietingthefoodnoise.substack.com/
2. Vlog from my vacation to Punta Cana in fall of 2025: https://youtu.be/e_OybdORGn8
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19 min - #55: A new sex club tour video, body confidence & getting fucked by Facebook
It’s September 10th, 2026, and I’m back after more than a month away, catching you up on everything that’s happened since my August 6th episode about one of my YouTube channels being terminated (my main channel is still up). I’m used to getting deplatformed—multiple Instagram accounts, years of YouTube demonetization, and now Facebook cutting my reach from around 2 million monthly views to under 50,000. The highlight was getting back into Oasis Aqualounge before opening to film a new tour, capture upgrades, and interview co-owner Fatima for episode 92 of my “Sex and Swinging with Toronto Unicorn” podcast, while also working through body-image anxiety and filming both vertical and horizontal versions. I also visited Mermaid Lounge, a Siren Sanctuary night, and Oasis bukkake night with DTF Tanya, helped people set boundaries, made a Hedonism banner (then learned about promotion rules), went to the CNE for the first time, and improved my editing workflow using Descript AI.
00:00 Back After A Month00:59 Deplatforming War Stories02:12 Oasis Tour Returns04:16 Body Image Nerves06:55 Filming Twice And Censorship08:55 More Club Nights09:54 Bukkake Night Magic12:07 Hedonism Banner Oops12:59 First Time At CNE15:24 AI Editing Workflow17:12 Facebook Reach Drop18:14 Wrap Up And Support*description written with the help of AI*
Content mentioned in this episode:1. Oasis Aqualounge 2026 Tour Video: https://open.spotify.com/episode/5zQqmaRrFtc7QR820iYR0r?si=f0f4de8bb6fd4fc4
2. Sex Stories podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2IEnavTNriD1aEosCvOPOQ?si=8f5f28dd57da40ea
3. Interview with Oasis Co-owner Fatima (episode 92): https://open.spotify.com/episode/6E8f1xl1gHkAdrmmeOy1FI?si=5b0e0e3baaa64bb8
4. A Magical Bukkake night with DTF Tanya: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1hhWBSc8RV31vLS8dnool1?si=0255d2228146447c
5. Siren Sanctuary event at Mermaid Lounge: https://youtu.be/PDpfc7PKHrw?si=WnmU3nYMAJLqHnz8
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22 min - #54: One of my YouTube channels was terminated (and now i'm worried i'll lose them all)
I woke up to an email saying my YouTube channel “Toronto Unicorn’s Everything Drawer” was removed for violating the nudity and sexuality policy, and I’m scared it could trigger a domino effect that takes down my other channels too, including my main “Toronto Unicorn” channel with over 1,000 videos and 20 million views. I’m confused because the deleted channel was mostly harmless vlog-style content, though it did include some old sex club footage. I appealed the termination but don’t expect much, and now my playlists have holes where those videos used to be. I also got an age-restriction email on a private family-only channel, which makes me feel like YouTube is reviewing everything tied to me. Thankfully I archived my videos and recreated my YouTube content on Spotify under my “My Real Sex Club and Swinger Lifestyle” podcast, but it doesn’t reach people the same way. For now, I’m afraid to post anything on YouTube and I’m just waiting to see what happens next.
00:00 Channel Removed Shock00:32 Everything Drawer Explained01:19 Domino Risk Across Channels02:32 Appeal And Missing Videos03:13 Backup Plan On Spotify04:57 Private Channel Flagged06:12 Identity And Income Fears08:01 Old Videos Under Scrutiny09:06 Where To Go From Here09:50 Signing Off Update Soon*description written with the help of AI******ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn
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13 min - #53: Grief, a Facebook monetization surprise, and chasing abundance on X
I share that I haven’t recorded anything in two weeks after losing my cat, Daisy Duke, and I’m still grieving and feeling apathetic about what used to bring me joy. I reflect on years of censorship and demonetization across YouTube and podcasts, leaving me to self-monetize, and how I’m no longer motivated to vlog routine sex-club nights unless something truly new happens (though I’m planning a Hedonism II trip with Swinkation Oct 10–17, 2026 via my affiliate link). I finally activated Facebook monetization, repackaged older YouTube content into censored clips using AI in Descript, and unexpectedly hit over a million views, but had monetization threatened by old 2022 posts before winning appeals. I also paid for verification on Facebook and X, saw growth, uploaded an uncensored full video to X with 10,000 views, and decided not to reapply for YouTube monetization due to risk.
00:00 Grief and Hiatus01:17 Censorship and Money Struggles03:05 Sex Club Burnout05:54 Hedonism Trip Invite07:26 Facebook Monetization Breakthrough10:03 AI Repackaging Old Content12:38 Monetization Scares and Appeals16:47 Manifesting Abundance Mindset18:24 Twitter Premium and New Strategy23:15 Platform Plan and YouTube Risks27:11 Support Links and Fan Stories28:57 Closing and Goodbye*description written with the help of AI*Content mentioned in this episode:
1. Swinkation (join me at Hedonism II in Jamaica Oct 2026): https://torontounicorn.com/tu-updates/join-toronto-unicorn-at-hedonism
2. Cooking show with lots of sausage: https://youtu.be/9yi9eMkonQU
3. My Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TorontoUnicorn
4. My X/Twitter: https://x.com/toronto_unicorn
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32 min - #52: Apartment hunting feels like online dating
I reflect on how I haven’t online dated in years and don’t miss the effort, ghosting, or wasted time, but a recent situation brought me back to that mindset—helping my partner find an apartment. Browsing listings feels like swiping, filtering out mismatches (like no air conditioning or smokers), and even getting “attracted” to certain places. I helped craft a template message with details like his credit score and job because landlords and realtors ask upfront questions before booking viewings. Going to showings feels like dates: dressing neutrally, showing up on time, not seeming too eager, and then waiting after applying without looking needy. I notice competition at viewings and how strange it is to commit to a one-year lease after one visit, mirroring the pressure to “settle” in dating.
00:00 Why I Quit Online Dating00:28 Apartment Hunting Feels Like Swiping01:13 Crafting the Perfect Reach Out01:52 Viewings Like First Dates03:05 Waiting Game and Apartment Features04:28 Competition and Commitment Fears05:28 Dating Reflections and Wrap Up06:29 More Podcasts and Where to Find Me*description written with the help of AI******ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn
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10 min - #51: Five years later: my love letter back to my bestie R
I share a personal diary-style reflection on my friendship with R, who first reached out to me with a thoughtful email after watching my YouTube videos, and how we quickly became close friends while going to Oasis Aqualounge (sometimes twice a week) and filming my early sex club vlogs, including our iconic “dirty burger” tradition. I explain that R has been far more than a nightlife buddy: she supported me through breakups, helped me handle drama, taught me forgiveness, and modeled a calmer, more secure way of coping. I recount memorable moments like crying in a sex club and hiding in a glory hole, and how assisting R’s scene at X Club helped spark my “orgy director” role. I also describe “R’s free shit chariot,” a rough birthday laugh, how our lives shifted, and why I consider her a lifelong best friend.
00:00 Meet R Through Email01:42 Oasis Nights And Dirty Burgers04:12 R Behind The Camera05:15 Friendship That Grounded Me09:50 Growing Up And Shifting Phases12:12 Crying In The Glory Hole15:18 Sharing Guys And Boundaries16:12 Becoming The Orgy Director19:41 Free Shit Chariot Era21:22 Birthday Tears To Laughter22:17 Love Letter And Life Advice24:58 Friendship Beyond The Clubs26:01 Links And Goodbye*description written with the help of AI*Content mentioned in this episode:1. Staring R playlist on YouTube: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLo4CCCnXmwlANBeh8FazITMZOPew32r0T&si=aHECc1-tBlyV0xvt
2. R's OnlyFans page: onlyfans.com/r_is_here
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30 min - #50: The only thing you can control is yourself
I share how therapy has helped me throughout adulthood—especially after a tough childhood, trouble regulating my nervous system, anger/reactivity, and taking years to recover from a major breakup. I describe a key lesson a therapist gave me when I complained that people always leave: instead of trying to stop others from leaving, I needed to build resilience for when they do. Over time, after enough romantic breakups, I learned to “roll with the punches,” even creating a podcast episode with 30 tips to survive the post-breakup period. I reflect on focusing on what I can control—my reactions, communication, and conflict resolution—rather than other people’s choices. I’m currently facing a personal challenge and coping differently now (journaling and recording instead of chain smoking), and I end by emphasizing that resilience is powerful and learnable.
00:00 Why I Needed Therapy
01:07 Breakups That Broke Me
02:24 People Always Leave
03:53 Building Resilience
05:30 Control What You Can
07:11 Acceptance and Heartbreak
07:53 Coping in Real Time
09:21 Final Takeaway
*description written with the help of AI*
Content mentioned in this episode:1. Life Hack Your Break Up podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2xPq2GyClcw0k5Ol176H5B?si=0a27179dd40e48b3
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13 min - #49: I mailed used panties to a fan... and now it's missing (Video on Spotify)
I share an embarrassing but real content-creator dilemma: I sometimes sell used items (socks, underwear, stockings, loofahs, clothes) privately to special fans, and I mailed a long-time fan in the U.S. a sealed care package that included used underwear. Because it crossed the border, customs and tracking make everything feel extra personal, and now the package appears lost—last scanned April 30 in Chicago and still not delivered by May 13. Filing a claim would require giving my and the recipient’s full contact details, which feels too invasive given what’s inside, so I’m choosing to walk away from the roughly $30 and hope the package disappears. I feel bad because the fan spoils me and deserves it, so I’ll likely resend it, but this experience makes me want to pause cross-border “used item” shipping.
00:00 Embarrassing Diary Intro00:29 What I Sell Privately01:34 Why Fans Want Worn Items02:21 Cross Border Customs Stress03:28 Package Lost In Transit04:39 Claim Versus Privacy Dilemma06:34 Resending And New Boundaries07:31 OnlyFans Trend And Scent Talk08:39 Grateful For A Generous Fan11:08 Two Day Wear Rule11:36 Wrap Up And Where To Find Me*description written with the help of AI*
Content mentioned in this episode:
1. Diary episode about a special fan who spoils me (Diary episode 35): https://open.spotify.com/episode/54oayMxzopDqBrN0W3GoQ2?si=8275d3add5a04233
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16 min - #48: Bridgerton (Netflix) through a sex-positive lens: sex ed, purity culture, and choice
I share my reflections on Netflix’s Bridgerton (four seasons completed, renewed for a fifth) as a 42-year-old, 2026 sex-positive educator who normally wouldn’t watch an 1800s high-society romance, but loved it and has watched it twice. I talk about how the show is an escapist fantasy with familiar “Disney” tropes, then focus on the sexual and social threads that stood out: the near-total absence of sex education for women (including confusion about pregnancy and orgasms), strict purity rules and fear of reputational ruin for women, and a stark double standard where men freely use prostitutes. I also note depictions of premarital sex, threesomes, orgies, and different rules for widows, plus early marriage, dowries, and women being valued mainly as wives and incubators. I connect this to modern pressures to be “chosen,” discuss being happily childfree, mention Russia banning talk of being childfree, and warn about women’s rights rolling back while encouraging people to choose their own path.
00:00 Why I Love Bridgerton00:38 Disney Fantasy Vibes02:08 Sex Educator Lens03:50 No Sex Education06:40 Purity Culture Rules08:32 Double Standards and Orgies10:24 Marriage Market Pressure13:18 Chosen by a Man16:01 Modern Freedom and Censorship18:19 Old Maid Brainwashing20:19 Rights Backsliding Warning22:51 Wrap Up and Call to Action*description written with the help of AI*
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28 min
About Dear Diary, it's TorontoUnicorn
From the publisher's feed
18+ only. This is my unfiltered diary as a sex-positive creator trying to stay online while the internet keeps trying to delete me. One week I’m directing an orgy, the next I’m crying over a broken Linktree or beefing with a treadmill at the gym. It’s chaotic, it’s funny, and it’s my real life.
This podcast is basically you and me on a phone call. Not eavesdropping — you’re the friend I’m talking to. You’ll hear everything: swinger club stories, wild fantasies, censorship fights, the art of making content, tech meltdowns, 90s nostalgia, but you’ll also get the vulnerable parts: the body-image dips, the ADHD crashes, the creator burnout, relationship issues, and the tiny moments that actually make life worth it.
I bring it all, honestly and unapologetically.
If you want real talk, real mess, real growth, and real sex-positive life stories from someone who refuses to shut up just because the algorithms wish I would… welcome to my TorontoUnicorn
diary.
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