Spilling some tea! I talk about ghosting from a Christian perspective, my thoughts on it & my experiences of it. When someone ghosts you, they are too afraid to be honest and have hard or uncomfortable conversations about their feelings. They like to take the easy way out. It’s not about you. It’s about them. Ghosting is about their maturity, selfishness and inability to communicate. You do not want to be with someone who doesn’t have the decency and can’t communicate.