Dear Future Children

Maybe the best dating advice out there is that there’s a lot more to life than dating….

If cheating is so terrible, why do so many people do it? We discuss all the assumptions people have about infidelity….and how to affair proof your marriage!

In a world where half of the people who get married end up divorced, and many of those who stay married are unhappy, maybe ‘just get married!’ isn’t the best advice. After all, great love stories don’t happen out of nowhere! They happen when we refuse to settle for anything less.

In an era where we know too much about everyone, we’ve also become a society which cares more than ever about how exactly it is we’re supposed to be. What does it actually mean to be relationship goals when relationships seem more diverse and complex than ever? Everyone’s love story is different- but here are some things we deeply believe everyone deserves.

In a world rife with “how to date” it feels like we hear less and less about WHY. Why date at all? Why do we fall madly in love with this person, and not that one? We thought about it….and we had some ideas.

There’s nothing like falling in love with the person who’s been there all along to make you question the performative norms of modern romance. Whether it’s the chaos of the apps, or the nightmare of the bar scene, it’s enough to make you wonder if friendship isn’t the thing we should all be focused on to begin with. After all, when it comes to love stories, our favorite will always be ours….even if it did take us 11 years to realize it.