🎙 Dear Chat, How Does One Make Friends…As An Adult?

Primas… why does making friends as an adult feel harder than dating??

😅 In this episode, Kristi and Clari are getting real about something we don't talk about enough: how to actually make friends in this season of life. Between motherhood, busy schedules, and just being a little more… aware (and maybe a little more tired), putting yourself out there can feel awkward, intimidating, and honestly, a little vulnerable.

We're sharing our own experiences the good, the awkward, and the "should I text her or is that weird?" moments along with practical ways to meet people, build genuine connections, and find your people in a world that doesn't make it as easy as it used to be!

Because friendships don't just happen like they did when we were younger! They take intention, effort, and sometimes a little courage.

If you've ever thought:

"Why is this so hard?"

"Where do I even meet people?"

"Is it too late to make new friends?"

Primas… this one is for you. 💕

If you don't have a group chat like this yet, we're your primas 💌

Grab your cafecito ☕ and let's figure it out together.

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Primas… can we talk about the fact that we're señoras now?? 😅

Like… we grew up in the 90s with dial-up internet, LimeWire downloads, and parents yelling "get off the house phone," and somehow now we're the ones packing lunch boxes, scheduling dentist appointments, and reminding our kids to drink water.

In this episode, Kristi and Clari unpack the very specific species that is the millennial mom. The moms who grew up riding bikes until the streetlights came on… but now track their kids' location, Google/ChatGPT every symptom, and send calendar invites for playdates months in advance.

We talk about how technology shaped our generation, the social media habits we swore we wouldn't have (but somehow do), and the parenting styles that make millennial moms… well, millennial moms. From nostalgia about our childhood to the way we're raising our kids today, this episode is a funny, honest look at the behaviors that define this era of motherhood.

Because let's be honest, we're still youthful, still figuring it out, and just trying to raise good humans while remembering where we put our caffeine. ☕

If you're a 90's baby turned señora, this one is for you. 💅Share this with a 90's baby who is now someone's mom 😅

Grab your cafecito and come laugh with your Primas.

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Kristi: #acotar : #2 #acourtofthornsandroses #acourtofmistandfury

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Clari: Paradise

Kristi: A Love Story

Chapters:

00:00 Welcome to Dear Primas 04:41 Beverage Choices and Spring Break Vibes 09:35 Audiobook Adventures 14:21 TV Show Obsessions 19:17 Millennial Reflections and Responsibilities 20:03 The Evolution of Technology and Its Impact on Millennials 22:07 Gentle Parenting: The Millennial Mom's Dilemma 33:06 Navigating Personal Devices and Screen Time 37:42 Fostering Social Skills in a Digital Age 42:26 Navigating Screen Time and Outdoor Play 45:13 The Debate on Technology and Kids 46:46 Fast Food Culture and Parenting Challenges 49:04 Millennial Parenting and Independence 52:09 Balancing Freedom and Responsibility in Parenting 55:55 Nostalgia and the Millennial Experience

🎙 Dear Family, Are We Complete

Primas… this one is tender. 🥹💌

In this episode, Kristi and Clari open up about a question that quietly sits in so many moms' hearts: Are we complete? From planning Santi's first birthday without family nearby, to the emotional weight of those early wake-ups and sleepless nights, we talk honestly about the newborn bubble, how beautiful it is, how fleeting it feels, and how exhausting it can be when you're in it.

We unpack the realities of having kids close in age, the physical toll of motherhood that no one fully prepares you for, and how deeply personal the decision to grow your family really is. Is there a "right" age gap? Is there a perfect number? Or are we all just figuring it out as we go?

We also talk about the differences in raising boys and girls, the importance of partner support, and why open communication matters more than ever when you're navigating these life-changing decisions together.

If you've ever wondered whether your family is complete… or whether your heart still wants more… this conversation is for you.

💕 No pressure. No judgment. Just real talk from two Primas learning as they go.

Grab your cafecito ☕ and come sit with us! Let's get into it Primas!

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Clari- Paradise

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Kristi- Everyone is lying to you Jo Piazza

Clari- Listen for the lie

Let's get into it Primas!

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Primas… we have THOUGHTS. 😅💅

In this episode, Clari and Kristi are doing what we do best catching up on what we're watching, what we're reading, and the shows that absolutely have a chokehold on us right now.

From His & Hers to The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives and Tell Me Lies, we're unpacking the twists, the red flags, the characters who make questionable choices, and why we're still so invested. SPOILER ALERT***

This convo feels like the group chat after everyone finishes the same show a little nostalgic, a little "why are we like this?"

So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come spiral with us. And don't forget to tell us what YOU'RE watching next because if there's one thing we're always ready for, it's more recommendations. 💌

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Primas… if January has you easing in instead of going all in, this one's for you. 💅✨

In this episode, Kristi and Clari are reconnecting after the New Year and pressing pause on the pressure. We're talking motherhood, growth, and what it really looks like to balance family life when you're doing it from different states and different seasons of life. This conversation feels like a journal entry read out loud. We reflect on why Dear Primas has always been about honesty over perfection, why community matters more than ever for moms, and why it's okay to not have everything figured out right now. January isn't about reinventing yourself, it's a soft launch into the year, and we're learning to take it one day at a time.

If you don't have a prima to text, we're your Primas. 💌

So grab your cafecito ☕, settle in, and come chat with us because you're not behind, you're right where you're supposed to be!

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Kristi: The Girl Who Was Taken

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Kristi: Steal

Chapters

00:00 Welcome Back and New Year Greetings 02:32 What is Dear Prima? 04:44 The Evolution of the Podcast 08:38 Building a Community of Moms 10:15 New Year Reflections and Family Goals 12:44 The Pressure of New Year's Resolutions 18:40 Finding Balance and Being Active 21:02 Miami's Vibrant Sports Culture 24:50 Navigating Parenting and Sports 29:32 The Realities of Kids in Sports 38:43 Engaging with Our Community

Primas… we can't believe we're here. 🥹

In this milestone 50th episode, Clari and Kristi are pressing pause to reflect on how far Dear Primas has come and how much we've grown right alongside you. From the early days before hitting record with nerves and big dreams, to navigating motherhood, work, and the constant evolution of who we're becoming, this episode is a heartfelt look at the journey so far.

We talk honestly about balancing motherhood and professional life, the decisions we're making for our kids' education, and the shift in perspective that comes with realizing our children are our biggest investments. We open up about the pressures around motherhood, the conversations around staying home, showing up, and finding where we fit in this ever-changing puzzle of life.

This episode is a reminder that we're all learning as we go, that growth doesn't have to be loud to be meaningful, and grace is something we deserve to give ourselves along the way.

Most of all, it's a thank you. For listening, for growing with us, and for being part of this community. We wouldn't be here without you, primas. 💕

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Kristi: The Ravenhood (The Finish Line #3)

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Clari & Kristi: Tell me Lies

Chapters

00:00 Celebrating Episode 50: A Journey Together 00:58 Reflecting on Motherhood: Early Days and Growth 04:22 Navigating Career Changes and Family Dynamics 08:42 Prioritizing Family: The Shift in Focus 12:33 Exploring Education: Homeschooling vs Traditional Schooling 15:06 Quality Time with Kids 16:27 Reevaluating Education Choices 18:00 The Stigma of Stay-at-Home Parenting 18:57 Balancing Work and Family Life 22:06 The Learning Curve of Homeschooling 23:02 Evolving Perspectives on Parenting 25:58 Building a Supportive Community 27:26 Embracing Change and Growth

Primas… why do Christmas cards feel like a full-time job? 😅🎄

In this episode, Kristi and Clari talk through the holiday pressure we all feel, from coordinating family photo sessions and the outfits, to racing the weather and hoping at least one photo turns out frame-worthy. We're sharing the joys, the stress, and the funny moments that come with trying to "capture the memories" while real life is very much happening.

We also chat about why candid photos often end up being the ones we treasure most, our favorite holiday movies, and why the season is about connection not perfection. Because years from now, it won't be the perfect pose we remember… it'll be the moment.

So if you're debating whether it's too late to send cards (again), grab your cafecito ☕, take a deep breath, and come laugh with us. 💌

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Chapters

00:00 Caffeine and Catching Up 01:53 Christmas Card Preparations 05:52 Family Photo Shoot Experiences 11:37 Photographer Insights and Tips 16:01 Capturing Family Memories 18:23 The Importance of Family Photos 21:53 Holiday Movies and Family Traditions

Primas… this one feels like a long overdue catch-up. 💌

Clari and Kristi are reconnecting after a major life shift! Clari's move from Houston to Miami 🌴. We're talking about the emotions behind packing up a life, the road trip, finding a new home, and what it really feels like to start over in a new place with your family.

We also open up about how this holiday season will look different, how traditions evolve, and why change can feel exciting and bittersweet all at once.

This episode is a reminder that even when life looks different than we imagined, it can still be really, really good. So grab your cafecito (or your choice of caffeine), settle in, and join us as we talk about growth, goodbyes, and embracing the next chapter, together. 💕

Primas, it's officially that time of year the pumpkin spice (or caffeine of your choice) is flowing, the field trips are field tripping, our kids can't be the only ones that changed Halloween costume ideas 12 times. 🎃😅

In this episode, Kristi and Clari are leaning all the way into the fall feels catching up on parenting moments, Halloween prep, and an unforgettable farm birthday party.

We're talking about the cozy, the cringey, and the real parts of the season. 🍂

So grab your cafecito (or your pumpkin cold brew ☕) and tune in because this one feels like a Friday night chat with your primas about fall, family, and finding the real in a filtered world. 💅💌

Primas, welcome to Everything Must Go, AKA The Garage Sale Era, where everything's negotiable… except our emotions. 🥹💅

This one's for the real Primas who've hosted (or survived) a garage sale or two in their day. Who remembers the sticker tags, the small talk with strangers, and the "wait, are we really selling that?!" moments? Clari has started moving prep, we're on a rollercoaster of letting go, of stuff, of spaces, and of a few memories too.

Between buyers, boxes, and big Florida dreams ☀️, we're selling things and catching feelings because saying goodbye to the familiar isn't as easy as a $5 deal.

So, grab a sweet treat, tune in for some laughs and a little reminder that every season (and every sale) brings a new chapter worth celebrating. 💌 Let's get into it, Primas!

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