Technology is transforming our relationship with dying and grief. Michelle Desmond is a successful corporate business leader turned thanatologist (expert in death and all types of bereavement) who has experienced a lifetime of close personal losses.

Michelle has a passion for the impact tech has (and will have) on these essential human experiences. Through engaging conversations on a range of topics, as well as science-backed analysis, she uncovers the stories, ideas, and innovations changing the way we approach grief and death. 

In this episode, she speaks with Adrienne Dewey. Adrienne is an executive with a young family and a personal brand she manages. Michelle and Adrienne discuss what it looks like to plan for one's end of life in the digital age, followed by a deep dive into the theoretical implications of what it means to plan for one's digital remains as well as the possibilities technology offers for new ways to commemorate the dead. Much is yet to be defined decades into the age of the Internet, and innovation offers solutions the might help, or might hinder, the grief process. 

 

 

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