Anger repressor who tried to teach mostly women and gay men how to be vulnerable and authentic, but she had never had a relationship. Once she had a relationship, her message changed to how it was important to be able to express your needs and be heard in relationship and to leave any man who wouldn’t hear you. All of that came from her anger repression. She never had the experience of actually being authentic with anyone as she gave other people this advice. Why was she doing this, because one of the things about repressions that you have to be good and helping is a great way to be good so you want your helpers who are helping you with authenticity and vulnerability to be talking about emotion, repression, or reporting themselves at least.