We all say we want to decentre men—but what about when your friends just won’t? This week, we’re digging into what it actually means to stop making men the main character and why some friendships start feeling different when you do. 

We get into: 

🚫 What “decentring men” really looks like 
😩 The secondhand cringe of watching a friend revolve around a guy 
💬 Why romance has been sold to us as the ultimate goal 
👯‍♀️ How to keep friendships solid when your priorities don’t align
🔄 What changes when you stop making men the default 

And yeah, unlearning this stuff isn’t instant—so we’re talking about our own messy, imperfect attempts too.