Episode Summary

Three weeks. That's how long a highly competent executive spent deciding whether to apply for a new role. Not because she lacked information—she had plenty. She couldn't decide because the decision felt like it was defining who she was becoming.

This episode tackles why smart, capable people suddenly can't make decisions during transitions—and why "just decide already" is useless advice.

We'll dig into the difference between decision fatigue and decision avoidance, what the research actually says about why your brain freezes when stakes feel high, and why you're probably waiting for certainty that will never arrive. Then we'll flip the script entirely: instead of trying to make the "right" decision, you'll learn how to design a 30-day experiment.

Resources Mentioned

• Sheena Iyengar, The Art of Choosing

• Dr. Maya Shankar on uncertainty and the brain

• Daniel Kahneman, Thinking Fast and Slow

• William Bridges, Transitions

This Week's Reflection Activity

Download the Decision Archaeology Worksheet

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EPISODE CREDITS

Host & Producer: Asbatra Coaching

Episode Length: 30 minutes