Is it that they can’t—or that they won’t?

In this episode, we break down the common struggle of distinguishing between genuine inability and refusal in neurodivergent kids, teens, and young adults. We explore:

• Why challenges can feel insurmountable due to unique brain wiring

• How to avoid power struggles and foster autonomy

• The neural response to perceived difficulty and how it impacts motivation

• The role of resilience and discipline in long-term growth

Understanding this gray area can help you respond with more clarity and support—without getting stuck in frustration.

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