Is it true that couples have come up with a work around for decor arguments by just dividing up their own spaces in the house? AJ knows his brother lost some stuff in his move because his wife took advantage to 'downsize.' The 'decor don't' conversation continues in the 'Am I a Jerk?' court. AJ & McCall preside over a great amount of passion, but perhaps a little bit too ambitious of a project for one husband.