Assalamu Alaykum!
This one's personal. Futhallah sits down for the third time with his own mentor, Amen Elbaba, and traces the FaceTime call that changed his career, the one that came right after a Salesforce rejection left him questioning everything. From there, the two dig into what mentorship actually means, starting with its roots in Islam: the Prophet Muhammad's relationship with Jibril, the hadith "Ad-dīn an-nāsīḥa" (religion is sincere advice), and how Imam Abu Hanifa credited two years with Ja'far as-Sadiq for shaping his entire legacy.
From there, the conversation gets practical. They talk about how to actually find a mentor today, how to set boundaries so the relationship doesn't turn one sided, why mentees have to put in the work instead of just showing up to vent, and how to handle a mentee (or a mentor) who overstays their welcome.
They close on the question everyone eventually asks: is it ever worth paying for mentorship? Amen and Futhallah break down the due diligence, the opportunity cost math, and why the real return isn't the money, it's the years you skip having to learn the hard way.
00:54 Why Mentorship Matters
03:24 Mentorship in Islam
06:18 Finding Mentors Today
11:46 Setting Clear Boundaries
13:46 Mentee Effort and Execution
17:33 Handling Overreach Respectfully
21:16 When to Pay for Mentorship
30:56 Parting Advice and Pay It Forward
33:40 Closing and Thanks
Deen and Deals on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0TmLGVfHqu3uG8TZyNtPcT
Deen and Deals on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/deen-deals/id1847344968
Mohammed Kiswani on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mohammedkiswani/
Futhallah Hamed on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/futhallah-hamed/
Amen Elbaba on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amenelbaba/