This episode goes beyond the romanticized views of marriage and dives into the reality that few talk about. We explore what it really means to be ready for marriage — not just externally, but spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. From setting realistic expectations to knowing yourself before knowing another, we discuss the beauty of love grounded in sincerity, responsibility, and a shared journey toward Allah.

Marriage isn’t a finish line — it’s a test of who you are when no one’s watching, and who you become when Allah puts love in your life as a trust, not a trophy.

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Intro - 0:00

Why do we start things with Bismillah - 0:35

Todays topic - 2:00

We’ve made marriage a cliche - 2:57

Marriage serves a purpose but your life doesn’t depend on it - 4:25

Making false promises before marriage - 5:51

Understanding your priorities - 7:40

The false image that society has painted of marriage - 9:21

The example of the Prophet o uh & Khadija RA - 9:41

Building a relationship for the sake of Allah - 10:19

It’s okay to have preferences but to be realistic - 12:28

Get to know yourself before knowing another person - 12:56

Understanding the position you must be in to take the responsibility of marriage - 13:44

The mentality you need when you’re ready for marriage - 15:49

Finding someone whos near you religiously & spiritually - 16:48

Advice for sisters when looking at a man - 17:58

Changing your mindset & perspective on life - 18:40

Changing the way you think about dua - 20:15

Thinking about every good deed as an invitation from Allah - 22:13

Everything we have comes from Allah - 23:05

Reflect on who you are & your shortcomings - 24:00

One thing that will fix your problems - 24:25

Developing gratefulness and treating each day like a big event - 28:47

Think better of Allah - 30:50

The reasons we should marry someone - 31:40

Building a bond on sincerity & communicating honestly - 32:41

Earning your rights as a spouse - 33:52

Be open about who you are and what you struggle with - 35:07

Showing mercy to one another - 36:36

Jannah is the #1 priority - 37:29

Embodying the Quran & Sunnah - 38:22