In this episode of Deep Dive Drive, recorded on my Saturday morning commute to matches, I talk about a topic that sits right at the heart of youth football — the impact parents have on players.

Parents wanting the best for their children is a good thing.

Support, encouragement, and care matter.

But there’s a fine line.

In this episode, I unpack the difference between supportive parenting and pushy parenting, and how crossing that line can actually slow a player’s development.

I talk about:

• Why coaching from the sideline creates information overload for young players
• How constant instructions can confuse decision-making and confidence
• The pressure placed on kids when expectations don’t match their current level
• Why progression matters more than status
• How finding the right environment beats chasing the highest one

I also touch on pressure — because not all pressure is bad.

A small amount helps build resilience.

Too much, too early, does the opposite.

This episode isn’t about blame.

It’s about awareness.

If you’re a parent, coach, or anyone involved in youth football, this is a real-world conversation about creating environments where players can enjoy the game, grow at their own pace, and develop properly.

Real journeys. Real balance. One drive at a time.