Who are the ne'er-do-wells in your life? What are their stories?
This is the talk I mentioned: Tea with Hezbollah: Is it possible to love your enemy? Carl Medearis
He has a book with a similar title if you are interested in reading the book called Tea with Hezbollah: Sitting at the Enemies' Table
I told a little bit of the story from Peace Child. If you liked what you heard I encourage you to read the whole book.