Narcissists don’t always demand power—just as often, they invite you into a beautiful illusion. In this episode, we expose one of the most seductive manipulations in the narc playbook: the idea that your love, your labor, your patience will unlock the hidden soul inside them.

It’s not a relationship. It’s an emotional assignment—one that keeps you giving endlessly while waiting for a breakthrough that never comes.

You’ll learn:
• Why narcissists present as “wounded potential” instead of tyrants
• How to recognize the trance of emotional labor disguised as sacred connection
• Three signs you’re trapped in a spell of endless deferral

This isn’t love—it’s energy theft wrapped in the language of transformation. The garden they promised doesn’t exist. But yours does.

Defense Against the Narc Arts is created, written, and produced by Katherine R. Lieber of TitaniumBlue LLC.

The shadows don’t stand a chance when you wield your own magic.

In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we reveal the insidious Spell of Unbeing—not as theory, but as lived sorcery. The kind that rewrites your center until you forget you ever had one. And we begin the only true counterspell: reclaiming yourself.

You’ll learn:

• How narcissists weaponize your smallest choices until even vanilla vs. chocolate becomes unsafe

• Why their goal is not to dominate you—but to replace your awareness with theirs

• How to begin the work of reappearing, and why the narcissist can’t survive your full presence

Understand the Spell of Unbeing, learn to defend, and walk away shining.

About the Author

Katherine R. Lieber is a high-performer strategist and founder of TitaniumBlue LLC. Known for blending systems thinking with deep energetic clarity, she helps those recovering from high-functioning relational trauma reclaim their perception, power, and creative direction. Her work exposes the unseen architecture of control—especially the subtle forms of narcissistic conditioning that erode the self without leaving a mark. Katherine is the creator of Defense Against the Narc Arts, a podcast devoted to decoding the deeper spells of narcissistic influence and restoring sovereignty to those who’ve been silently undone.

S1E13: The Narc’s (Dis)Enchanted Tale: The Dark Sorcery of Stealing Your Story

Narcissists don’t just distort your truth—they steal it. In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we expose the dark sorcery of narrative appropriation: how narcissists twist your story, tell it better than you, and use it to control the way others see you—and how you see yourself.

If you’ve ever found yourself constantly defending your reputation, shrinking your voice, or wondering how you lost control of your own life story, this one’s for you.

You’ll learn:

• How narrative appropriation works as a manipulation tactic

• Three signs your story is being stolen and distorted

• One powerful strategy to reclaim your voice and break their spell

Because your story is power—and it’s time to take it back.

Defense Against the Narc Arts is created, written, and produced by high-performer strategist Katherine R. Lieber of TitaniumBlue LLC.

The shadows don’t stand a chance when you wield your own magic.

About the Author 

Katherine R. Lieber is a strategist and systems thinker who helps high-performing survivors reclaim their clarity, voice, and personal power.

With expertise in digital strategy, trauma-aware systems, and the hidden mechanics of narcissistic control, she equips listeners with language, insight, and tools to dismantle the illusions—and defend their truth.

This podcast is voice-hosted by AI, with all content written and produced by Katherine R. Lieber of TitaniumBlue LLC

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Not all manipulations arrive with fanfare. Some slip past your defenses hidden inside politeness, social expectation, and seemingly innocent requests.

In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we expose The Trojan Horse—the narc’s calculated use of social niceties as a tool of control. They don’t demand access to your life; they disguise it. A casual "Can you give me a quick call?" A harmless "Haven’t heard from you in a while!" A simple "I was wondering if you could help me with something."On the surface, these sound normal. But underneath? They are tests. They are spells of obligation. And they are designed to pull you back in.

We break down why this tactic is so effective, how it exploits your natural instincts of fairness and goodwill, and most importantly—how to recognize the spell before it takes hold. Because the moment you stop feeling obligated to answer? Their magic fails.

Tune in now and learn how to keep the gates of your mind, energy, and time fully under your control.

For the narc, suffering is not enough. You must prove it -- and prove it until they allow you to stop.

It is not enough to grieve—they must see it in your eyes.

It is not enough to apologize—they must hear it in your voice, over and over, long after the moment has passed.

It is not enough to endure pain—they must ensure you carry it, wear it, and perform it indefinitely.

And if you dare to heal too soon? They will punish you for it.

In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we reveal the ritual of forced suffering—how the narc demands you stay wrapped in guilt, shame, and grief for as long as they decide. We break down why they deny you permission to heal, the spells they use to keep you stuck, and most importantly—how to cast off the ashes and reclaim yourself.

Because healing is not something you have to earn. It is something that belongs to you. Tune in now.

The narc’s darkest magic isn’t about power alone—it’s about forcing you to prove your strength until you break.

No matter how much you endure, no matter how long you suffer in silence, the moment you show exhaustion, the moment you ask for relief—they call you weak.

In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we uncover the spell of impossible endurance—how the narc weaves a world where you must push through pain, silence your needs, and prove your worth through suffering. They demand that you carry burdens without complaint, endure wounds without pause—only to shame you the moment you falter.

But this is not real strength—it is an enchantment of control. And today, we will reveal the counter-spell—how to break free from the narc’s demand for endless suffering, reclaim your right to rest, and step beyond their illusions for good.

Because true power is not in how much you endure—it is in knowing when to stop walking. Tune in now.

The narc’s dark spells of control go beyond simple dominance—they require constant performance of submission. It is not enough for you to obey. You must perform obedience. You must yield, defer, and demonstrate, over and over, that you know your place beneath them.

In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we uncover the demand for submission—the narc’s relentless demand for you to justify, explain, and prove yourself in every interaction. We reveal why nothing you do is ever “good enough,” why they create pointless arguments and ever-changing standards, and why your autonomy itself is an act of defiance in their eyes.

Most importantly, we teach you how to break the ritual, refuse the performance, and reclaim your sovereignty.Because once you stop bowing, the spell breaks.

Tune in now and step into your power. You were never meant to kneel.

Every master of deception knows that control isn’t taken—it’s given. The narcissist doesn’t just ask for your trust once; they demand it endlessly, requiring you to reset reality every time they spin a new illusion. In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we expose the Enchantment of the Gullible Child, the spell that forces you to ignore past betrayals and believe—again and again—that this time will be different.

Why is it so hard to break free? Because the narc is a master sorcerer, using charm, manipulation, and the Vision of Hope to keep you spellbound. But every illusion has a counterspell, and today, you’ll learn the magic you need to break their hold once and for all.

Join us as we reveal:

🔮 Why the narc’s deception is a system, not a mistake

🔮 How they use hope as a weapon to keep you believing

🔮 The counterspells that shatter their illusions and reclaim your power

No more resets. No more illusions. It’s time to break the spell.

✨ Listen now.✨

Ever tried to have a real conversation with a narcissist, only to be shut down with a single phrase? “You’re overthinking it.” “Just let it go.” “It is what it is.” These aren’t just frustrating comments—they’re thought-stopping clichés, verbal spells designed to shut down discussion, block accountability, and leave you questioning yourself.

In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we expose how narcs use seemingly harmless phrases to derail your thoughts, make you feel like you’re the problem, and train you to stop questioning their behavior entirely. We’ll break down the hidden social conditioning that makes these phrases so effective, how they hijack your brain’s processing, and most importantly—how to recognize them in real time so you can mentally disengage.

Because once you see these spells for what they are, they lose their power—and you take back control of your own mind. Tune in now.

Narcissists don’t control people through force—they do it through illusion. Their most powerful spell? Charm.

At first, they seem like the perfect friend, partner, or mentor—magnetic, engaging, and completely in sync with you. They mirror your energy, reflect your dreams, and make you feel like you've finally met someone who gets you. But it’s not real. It’s a crafted performance, designed to pull you in before the mask slips and their true nature takes over.

In this episode of Defense Against the Narc Arts, we expose how narcs use charm and glamour as a tool of manipulation, why they seem so convincing, and the red flags that reveal when you’re dealing with a master of deception rather than genuine connection. Most importantly, we’ll teach you how to break their spell—so you can reclaim your power, trust your instincts, and never fall for the old razzle-dazzle again.

Because once you see the illusion for what it is, it can never control you again. Tune in now.

Defense Against the Narc Arts is created, written, and produced by high-performer strategist Katherine R. Lieber of TitaniumBlue LLC. Get ready to see through their illusions and step into your role as the master of your own story.