Pastor Scott Thomas shares an insightful message about understanding relationships through a Christian perspective, emphasizing that before we can define any relationship ("What are we?"), we must first understand our individual purpose and relationship with God. He outlines three key elements that help identify and strengthen relationships: commitment to Christ as the foundation, active pursuit of spiritual growth together, and surrounding ourselves with a supportive Christian community. Throughout the message, Pastor Scott emphasizes that true purpose and fulfilling relationships can only be built when Jesus is at the center, with all other aspects of life - including dating and marriage - flowing from that primary relationship.