"If I didn't define myself for myself I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive." -Audre Lorde

In this episode our host Kimbretta takes some time to share with us from her personal journal entries about how she took time to learn, explore, and elevate how she shows up in her romantic relationships.  As she always says, leadership starts with yourself; and she isn't exempt from that.  After repeat heartbreaks and numerous situation-ships that never became anything more, it was time for Kimbretta to look within and dig deep to find out who she is before all the trauma and pain and then to take action by being courageous enough to be that person, unapologetically, no matter what.