Dear Red,

I think my friend, who is a girl, is interested in women. She is super private about her dating life and she never tells me anything specific about the person she is dating. I’ve seen her kiss girls who are friends drunkenly at a party before but I think we’ve all done that before. She also talks about how hot certain girls are and she asked me if I’ve ever hooked up with a girl before. I feel uncomfortable around her not because she might be a lesbian but because I just want her to be herself because we’d all love and accept her no matter what. I want her to know that but what if I’m wrong and she’s straight. What do I do?

Dear Red,

I’ve been seeing someone for a little over a month and I’m not really sure what they want from me. How do I have the conversation about what we are? I thought they would have asked by now so now I’m nervous that we want different things. Should I be the one to bring it up? Is it even necessary?

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