Judy explains "I basically had two dementia patients. And my dad was very different from my mom because he would run, he would flee the house and I'd have to chase him down."

Judy describes the helplessness of watching her mother's confusion grow and not knowing how to help her. She recalls the friction with her father as she became their full-time caregiver. Now, with both her parents gone, Judy reflects on this hard season of her life.

"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens: a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot,"  Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 (NIV)