What if birth isn’t simply an event to prepare for, but a rite of passage that fundamentally changes who we are? Hosts Ashley Makan and Wendy Bruns welcome Dr. Britta Bushnell, mythologist, childbirth educator, relationship and parenthood specialist, and author of Transformed by Birth, for a conversation about the profound transformation that unfolds through pregnancy, birth, and early parenthood. Britta explores birth through the metaphor of metamorphosis—the “messy middle” of letting go, rebuilding, and becoming.
Together, they discuss expectations and control, openness and resilience, how our own early experiences can surface in parenting, and the ways partners can move through transformation with greater curiosity, tenderness, and connection. The conversation also touches on self-compassion, rupture and repair, and what becomes possible when babies are understood as active participants in pregnancy and birth.
In this episode:
• Birth as a rite of passage and transformative process
• The chrysalis, metamorphosis, and the “messy middle”
• Letting go of expectations and opening to the unbidden
• Openness, resilience, strength, and curiosity
• How our own early experiences can surface in parenting
• Supporting partners through simultaneous transformation
• Moving from criticism toward curiosity and connection
• Relationship as an ongoing practice
• Self-compassion, rupture, repair, and our children’s inner voices
• Babies as active participants in pregnancy and birth
• How tending the beginning can create cultural ripple effects
Learn more about Britta Bushnell, PhD: https://brittabushnell.com
Instagram: @brittabushnellphd
Book: Transformed by Birth
Learn more about APPPAH: https://birthpsychology.com
Demystifying Birth Psychology is presented by the Association for Prenatal and Perinatal Psychology and Health (APPPAH), exploring how our earliest experiences—from preconception through birth and beyond—shape the human experience.