Be very Careful who you Tell your Deep Dark Secret's to: Think & Question why do I need a Sponsor, just because someone said I Do? Yes, some time in our Shadow Work/Self Analysis we may want to talk to Someone we (think) we can TRUST about our Life History, but it should always be my Choice with NO Pressure. We our not Different just because we had a Drink/Drug Problem we are just Human Beings, Being Human. All People have so called Character Defect/Human Behavior.