Derrick, you asked me if you should move on. If Anthony’s love, or lack of it, is just something you have to accept. If being married for over a decade means you should keep fighting for something that has never fully held you back. You told me you feel alone. That you’ve been begging him to want anything to do with you. That even on Valentine’s Day, after buying him flowers weeks in advance, it was just another day where he looked at you with distance instead of warmth.

So here’s my question back to you: When is enough… enough?

You don’t deserve to be invisible in your own marriage. Love isn’t supposed to be a battle for attention, a quiet suffering where you wonder if today is the day he finally sees you. You’ve spent years holding on, waiting for him to meet you halfway. But what if he never does? What if he’s already made his choice and you just haven’t let yourself see it yet?

This isn’t about whether you can keep going. You can endure anything—you always have. But is endurance what you really want? Or do you deserve to be loved the way you love?

Let’s talk.

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