Speakings

Desire as Refusal of Time


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The key points in this "speaking":

  • Desire keeps us stretched into the future, looking for an otherwise or a not-yet. Because it feeds on the future, desire is inherently insatiable.

  • We are terrified of the present moment because to belong fully to the moment is to die.

  • Time as the living present vs. the abstracted, artificial timeline of our story-lives. We live in an abstracted temporality in order to flee from the fear and shame of simply being alive.

  • All desires are innocent. They are just feelings that refuse to be felt fully, so we externalize them outward.

  • While desire stretches the self perpetually into the future, "pleasure is the present, savored with the totality of the flesh."

  • If you have questions, comments, or suggestions for future topics, you can email me at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠. You can also check out my website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.sondrawriter.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, where you'll find my essays and links to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠my memoir⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

    Music is L'épisode cévenol by Circus Marcus, from the Free Music Archive. License type: CC BY-NC.You can find the synopsis of this episode, further notes, and a convenient place to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠comment ⁠here⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. 

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