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Desire Without Shame: Understanding the Parts of You That Want, Need & Crave with Matthew Riven


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In this unapologetically raw and transformative episode, we dive straight into the psychology of desire, power, and the hidden emotional contracts that shape how we love, lead, and express who we truly are.


Drawing from Transactional Analysis, Re-decision work, and a deep, grounded understanding of human behavior through his background in public health and business, Matthew brings over a decade of guiding people out of the unconscious scripts they inherited in childhood — the scripts that quietly dictate their relationships, their leadership, their sexuality, and their sense of worth.


This episode invites you to meet your desires with clarity, courage, and compassion.


Together, we dive into:

  • What is an emotional contract
  • How childhood patterns shape your adult desires
  • Healthy vs. performative vs. suppressed desire
  • What kink, consent, and power reveal about everyday relationships
  • Breaking old scripts and living the life that truly fits you


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Joyan Chan is an award-winning coach, international speaker, and podcaster. The core of her work centers on helping leaders and entrepreneurs develop unshakable confidence to build a Rockstar personal brand, gain worldwide exposure, and earn recognition for their expertise through podcasting.


Joyan's years of experience as a young lecturer, team leader, and business owner have given her a keen sense of what it takes to become a confident, visible, and impactful leader in today's world.


Her personal journey, which involved transforming depression into empowerment and building her brand from the ground up in just two years, inspired her to create a proven roadmap called "Rookie to Rockstar." It’s the same roadmap she has followed and now uses to guide her clients to launch, market and monetize their podcasts, positioning them as industry ICONs.


Joyan has been featured in numerous magazines, publications, shows and has spoken at many industry events. In March 2022, Joyan was awarded Outstanding Leadership Award on stage in Dubai, UAE. In the same year, she was also named a successful person by Britishpedia.


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