Detention Diaries

Detention Diaries #2: Lost Boys: What Schools Get Wrong About Masculinity


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In Episode 2 of Detention Diaries, I sit down with Andy — a former mainstream teacher who went on to set up education across multiple alternative provision sites in the North West, and now works with Progressive Masculinity, helping schools rethink how they support boys.

We dive deep into what’s really going on with young men in education — the ones who slip through the cracks, lash out, or just quietly disappear. We unpack the findings of the ‘Lost Boys’ report, explore the crisis of modern masculinity, and ask: how can schools help boys grow without shutting them down?

Andy’s story takes us from PE changing rooms to PRU classrooms to working nationally on gender and behaviour. It’s a conversation about identity, belonging, and hope, with a fair bit of honesty (and a touch of swearing) along the way.

If you’ve ever taught that student, worried about the state of boys’ education, or wondered what it really means to “man up” in 2025 — this episode’s for you.

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