* This prayer is a sabotaging prayer.

* The most powerful prayers are always like this because they represent full surrender.

* It’s like praying, “God, if I sin secretly against my wife please expose me.”

* This prayer is about “we,” not “me.”

* It’s the same thing Jesus teaches us to pray - “forgive us our debts AS WE FORGIVE OUR DEBTORS.”

* Said another way, “Don’t forgive me if I don’t forgive them.”

* We’re sabotaging ourselves, but it’s what keeps us accountable.