When a Dom-in-training dares to experience the other side of the paddle, they learn that mastering the power of communication and empathy is the key to success - and a journey of self-discovery. Here's what Damian and I cover: 1. What qualities do you need to be a good Dom? 2. What are the BDSM interest evaluation steps? 3. How can you create a successful scene with a sub? Damian is a BDSM expert.  He is passionate about helping new Doms learn the ropes and is an advocate for safe, consensual BDSM play.   Raven’s Lair Free Webinar Training Program Sign up Page: https://www.ravenslairleather.com/videos   Check out our new podcast website: https://www.podpage.com/adult-bedtime-stories/   Links for the websites we discussed in the show include:   https://www.ravenslairleather.com https://www.ladyboytemple.com https://ggwilbur.com Patreon Page at:  https://www.patreon.com/LadyboyGigi/membership Email Ladyboy Gigi:  admin@ggwilbur.com 
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Developing Dominant Skills for BDSM Role Play

Welcome to Adult Bedtime Stories – Are you ready to experience Nocturnal Emissions. Join us in a Sex-Positive Awakening adventure to help create a sex-positive world. Become part of a movement and start living a sex-positive lifestyle free of sexual shame and guilt. Adult Bedtime Stories is A Raven’s Lair Production. Adult Bedtime Stories is a show dedicated to bringing sacredness back to our sexuality and to learn about everything sexual. Allow the beautiful sexy creature within you to emerge. Each week the focus of the show will be on different sexual topics designed to enlighten you so you develop more fully as a sexual being. This is the sex education that you didn’t receive in high school, but should have. Imagine for a moment that we could change the world and live a sex-positive lifestyle. In our sex-negative world the process of socialization teaches us to feel shame and guilt around sex. By adopting a new set of attitudes and values around sex, we can view sex with a new understanding which is accompanied with positive emotions and the attitude that sex is a sacred act.

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Edging an orgasm is a sexual technique that can be done by women, and men. While it seems simple at the surface, it does take time to train ones body, but the effort is well worth it. Through the process of edging, pre-orgasmic energy is circulated through the entire body. With this technique, one can experience full body orgasms and more robust orgasms. In this episode of Adult Bedtime Stories, we cover the entire process of edging an orgasm. While many think of sex as a physical activity, it can involve sexual energy. Learn about sexual energy and how to raise sexual energy in this episode.

Edging an Orgasm

Would you like to remove the shackles from living in the dark ages of sexuality? Do you feel worthy of experiencing new heights of sexual ecstasy without feeling sexual shame or guilt? Which statements do you identify with (pick all that apply): I am sexy and beautiful! I love sex and I have an amazing sex drive. I love my body just as it is. I am able to communicate clearly with intimate partners about my sensual desires and about sexual activities I enjoy, freely and openly. If you don’t identify with all the above statements, it is not your fault.  We all live in a sex-negative culture. We are all influenced by sex-negative social conditioning which strips away these values and replaces them with sexual taboos.  If you want to identify with the above statements, today’s topic will provide the methods to change your attitudes and values. From living in a sex-negative society, we are all impacted with sex-negative social conditioning which erodes our healthy sense of being a beautiful sexy person.  These exercises are designed to build a healthy body image and to help us create a new script to override sex-negative social conditioning.

Sexual Affirmations

In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex.  This is a myth and a misconception.  For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure.  Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure.  By exploring the body, identifying erogenous zones, mapping them out, and communicating them to your partner, you will form a deeper connection with your partner as well as experience more sexual pleasures.  Many people who have completed the training experienced their first full body orgasm.  Men can experience full body orgasms as well as women. In tonight’s episode, we are completing The Erotic Body Map Training with some erotic exercises and erotic games.  I have included exercises that are for singles and for couples.  Explore methods to reach sexual enlightenment and learn how to experience greater pleasure & greater connection.  Show Links: https://ravenslairleather.com/podcast

The Erotic Body Map Training Program Part 4 of 4

In our culture, it is assumed that we will instinctively know how to have sex.  This is a myth and a misconception.  For sex to be great, we need to learn about our sexual bodies as well as our partner’s sexual responsiveness. The Erotic Body Map Training Program is a great process to improve one’s sexual pleasure.  Our whole body is neurologically wired to receive sexual pleasure.  By exploring the body, identifying erogenous zones, mapping them out, and communicating them to your partner, you will form a deeper connection with your partner as well as experience more sexual pleasures.  Many people who have completed the training experienced their first full body orgasm.  Men can experience full body orgasms as well as women. https://ravenslairleather.com/podcast

The Erotic Body Map Training Program Part 3 of 4

Tonights video training is on The erotic body map training part 2.  To watch the podcast on video go to ravenslairleather.com/podcast.  In the video version I include some images of basic sexual anatomy.  In the future, I will offer a podcast on detailed sexual anatomy for those who want more in depth education. Tonight’s training video will cover A Sex Positive Approach & Erogenous Zones, How the Body Works Erotically, Sexual Neurology, The Kundalini, and Sensory Perception.  This is the foundation to create the erotic body map.

Developing Dominant Skills for BDSM Role Play

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