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Dialed In For Success Episode 14—The Arrival Fallacy
Show Notes
I first heard of the arrival fallacy on the Internet Business Mastery podcast
Comes from the book Happier by Tal-Ben Shahar
The Arrival Fallacy—“The false belief that reaching a valued destination can sustain happiness (p.25)
As you get closer to the event, you adapt to your environment and return to your happiness setpoint
CORRECTION: at 3:30 into the podcast, I reference Jim Belushi as an example of the arrival fallacy. In fact, I meant to reference his brother John Belushi. Jim Belushi is alive and well.
Types of Arrival fallacies
Source: Venkatesh Rao Live Life, Not Projects
http://www.tempobook.com/2012/02/20/live-life-not-projects/
All arrival fallacies are based on the idea that whatever you want to experience comes from outside yourself.
The decision to be happy or ready or enlightened is determined by a decision to have that in your life.
Take-Away
Make a decision to be happy or ready or enlightened. Regardless of what you want in your life, make a decision to have it today.
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Don’t treat your dream like a bad date. You’ve got to show up
Resource:
Rich Like Them: My Door-to-Door Search for the Secrets of Wealth in America's Richest Neighborhoods
Keep your goal, destination or purpose in the forefront of you mind.
Wealthy people keep their goals in mind no matter what they’re doing.
When you always keep your goal in mind, you form associations that you wouldn’t otherwise. Overtime you piece these associations together to unlock the key to achieving your goal.
The Lamest Secret of Success link: http://www.shanepurnell.com/2013/07/31/mike-dillard-reveals-the-lamest-secret-of-success-secret-youll-ever-hear/
Lame Success Secret:
Twitter has it's Limits:
Source: http://iag.me/socialmedia/guides/do-you-know-the-twitter-limits/
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Life Lessons
Five Things Your Kids Know about success that you may have forgotten
Online Success Tools
Facebook TABS
Static HTML iFrames from Thunderpenny allows you to customize your Facebook tabs.
Allows you to turn your custom tabs into a web page where you can put forms, videos pictures or anything else you can put on a web page in a Facebook custom tab.
Feature called “like gating” forces users to LIKE your page before they can access its custom tab content.
Try it and send me an email to let me know how it works for you. [email protected]
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Last Three podcasts
Podcast 11: So You want to build a Platform
Podcast 10: The Five Laws of Stratospheric Success
Podcast 9: The Meaning in Life
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So You Want to Build a Platform?
Show Notes:
If I had to start all over again, here are the five things I would do to build a platform
Set up a blog or website as my Home base of Operations
free blogging platforms are quick and easy
Also paid platforms
Self-hosted
Use your own domain name. Gives you the most control
Paid Hosted
Empower Network- I use Empower Network because with good keyword research and back links, I’ve been hitting 1st page of Google SearchTraffic Rankings: Top 250 in the U.S. Top 500 in the world (Alexa.com)
Affilate Link.
BTW. Other than my own name, I had never hit the 1st page of Google until I started using their blogging platform along with my own.
Have a Facebook Page for my Online Message.
You can use other Social Media sites, but Facebook is still king
Use Twitter
Start a Podcast
YouTube
Reminders:
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Link to Get your own Empower Network Blog, including 8 Fast start videos to catapult you toward #1 Google rankings
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In this episode we talked about the 5 Laws of Stratospheric Success from the book The Go-Giver
The Go-Giver: A Little Story About a Powerful Business Idea" target="_blank">You can purchase the Go-Giver From Amazon. (Affilate Link)
The Five Laws of Statospheric Success
#1 – Law of Value. Your true worth is determined by how much more you give in value than you take in payment.
#2 – Law of Compensation. Your income is determined by how many people you serve and how well you serve them.
#3 – Law of Influence. Your influence is determined by how abundantly you place other people's interests first.
#4 – Law of Authenticity. The most valuable gift you have to offer is yourself.
#5 Law of Receptivity. The key to effective giving is to stay open to receiving.
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http://www.shanepurnell.com/2013/07/06/podcast-10-the-five-laws-of-stratospheric-success/
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Whether you think you can, or you think you can't--you're right.” ~Henry Ford
My Wage
“I bargained with Life for a penny,
And Life would pay no more,
However I begged at evening
When I counted my scanty store.
For Life is a just employer,
He gives you what you ask,
But once you have set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.
I worked for a menial’s hire,
Only to learn, dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of Life,
Life would have willingly paid.”
-Jessie B. Rittenhouse
Belief doesn’t work! Only certainty works
Everything you have must be focused and directed toward your goal. Only certainty backed by specific, focused action brings results.
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If you’re not a little nervous about your goals and decisions, then you’re playing too small ~Tony Rush
Big decisions make us nervous because of “Or Else”
“Or Else” is our worry of what will happen if we fail. For example, “I have to achieve my goal or else I’ll lose $1500.00”. The bigger the goal the Bigger the “Or Else”
Making a big decision or having a big goal stretches us. It forces us to do things we wouldn’t do otherwise.
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