Diana Indries and Scott Allen discuss how we can know a person before we start dating. Too often, we focus on the physical attributes of a person, and the physical will likely change with time. However, our values tend to remain constant throughout life, and we can adapt to physical changes more quickly than we can cope with disparate values. Scott devised an innovative game to help us learn each other's values. It is very interactive to help the participants become aware of topics they would not encounter until later in the relationship. Diana adapted Scott's creation and is making the game available for purchase beginning September 2022 through https://www.bettertopics.com.