Rilla Melati speaks candidly on how it's like being a single mum - the struggles, sacrifices and the challenges she face to raise her one and only child Nadim. Once she decided to end the marriage, she was determined that she and Nadim would not be victims of circumstances and that he would not be at a disadvantage . In fact , it was very clear in her mind , that Nadim must excel in his studies and be an all rounder. Together with the unwavering support from her parents , Rilla ensures that Nadim is number one priority in her life and that he will receive the best education available. Nadim is on a scholarship , studying in the Bartlett School of Architecture (University College London) - one of the most influential and innovative architecture school in the world.