What if the real glow-up before marriage isn’t skincare… it’s your bank account? Most of us grew up hearing “just save” with zero clue how money actually grows, moves, and works for you. In this episode, financial educator and consultant Areeb Khawaja spills the secrets no one in our communities explains, the quiet moves that build wealth before the marriage talks even begin. 

Think: the accounts nobody told you about, the small habits that snowball into freedom, the creative ways to minimise your taxes, and the halal pathways that grow your money without guilt. It’s not a lecture, it’s the money talk you wish someone gave you at 20. If you’re a single Muslim who wants clarity, confidence, and a financial head start, this one’s your blueprint.

Connect with Areeb for FREE financial literacy sessions through his email: [email protected] 

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Today we get into the messy reality of being a single Muslim in a world obsessed with labels. We talk about how people use “religious,” “conservative,” and “liberal” as shortcuts instead of actually getting to know someone—and how that leaves so many amazing matches dismissed before the first conversation even starts.

We also dig into family judgments, unfair assumptions, and what happens when someone is written off because of their parents, not their own character. If you’re tired of being boxed in, misunderstood, or filtered out by vibes instead of values, this episode will feel like a deep exhale.

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We never thought we’d say this out loud… but we were that Muslim couple who confidently said, “We’re not having kids.” Full stop. And now? Alhamdullilah! We’re expecting. This episode is one of the rawest we’ve ever recorded: the real fears, the private conversations, the guilt, the relief, and the plot twist that changed everything.

But this isn’t just about us. It’s about you, the single Muslim who’s unsure about kids, overwhelmed by the world, afraid of losing yourself, or scared of choosing the wrong partner. We dig into why so many of us avoid the topic, what actually sits underneath the hesitation, and how perspectives can shift with time, healing, and the right person.

It’s honest, messy, and very real. You’ll feel seen.

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Tired of “halal speed dating” that feels like a performance instead of a real path to marriage? In this episode, we get honest about the modern Muslim matrimonial scene—what’s actually helping people connect and what’s just… awkward. From wild rotation stories to on-stage “auditions,” we break down why five-minute pitches and public biodata walls never lead anywhere. 

But we also share what does work: real pre-screening, balanced ratios, confidential spaces, and activities that bring out values, not rehearsed answers. We talk about what we’ve seen, hosting our own curated event and volunteering with organizers who actually get it. 

If you’re trying to figure out which events to trust (or avoid), this episode gives you a clear, no-nonsense blueprint to navigate it all.

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Let’s be real, porn is everywhere. And yes, Muslims are watching it too, way more than anyone admits. In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Fahad Khan, a clinical psychologist and an expert in Islamic psychology. We talk about why so many singles fall into it, how hard it’s become to get married, and how that mix messes with the mind, the heart, and even real attraction.

Whether you’ve struggled with it or you’re worried the person you’re talking to might be, this episode peels back the silence with an honest look at what’s happening and what it means for all of us trying to build real connections in a post-modern world.

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Most single people think parenting is a future problem, something to worry about after having children. But the truth is, the way you’ll handle kids one day is already showing up in how you argue, apologize, or deal with stress today. The problem isn’t the kids, it’s us. How we handle emotions, set boundaries, and respond to conflict often reflects patterns from our own upbringing.

On this episode we’re hosting parenting coach Maysaa Fahour to explore why learning about parenting early makes all the difference. It’s not about kids yet, it’s about understanding yourself, spotting your patterns, and seeing how you might show up as a spouse. Press play to explore parenting as a mirror for who you are and who you’ll become.

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What if marriage never happens? Not as a gloomy thought, but as a real, quiet one many of us have whispered at some point. What if you’ve prayed, tried, and waited, and it still doesn’t come? What then?

This episode speaks to that space between faith and fatigue, the longing, the grief, and the slow work of finding joy again. We talk about what it means to build a full, meaningful life even when marriage isn’t part of the picture, and how Allah’s plan for you is never on pause. 

Download our Free Guide: If I Never Marry: 10 Practical Moves Every Single Muslim Should Make, and explore creative ways to strategize, grow, and live fully today. Get it here.

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Have you ever been told to “lower your gaze” and wondered what that’s supposed to look like in 2025 when the hardest place to lower it isn’t the street, but your screen? One innocent scroll can turn into a full-blown spiral before you even realize it.

We’re talking about the subtle stuff: how comparison, curiosity, and constant exposure slowly shape what we find attractive, and how that ends up affecting real-life attraction, confidence, and even marriage expectations. Because it’s not just about modesty; it’s about protecting your focus in a world built to steal it. If you’ve ever felt torn between your values and the world you live in, this one will hit home.

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Most couples obsess over the wedding details: venues, flowers, guest lists... but skip the one step that actually prepares you for marriage. We know because we skipped it too. And trust us, it’s a mistake we don't want you to make.

Today we sit down with psychotherapist Hina Mirza to uncover why premarital counseling isn’t some boring checklist, it’s the ultimate hack for a smoother, happier marriage. Think of it as marriage prep you’ll actually enjoy: decoding communication, spotting blind spots, and setting up love to last. If you think you know what premarital counseling is, think again. This is the one thing EVERY couple needs before saying “I do.”

Connect with Hina on Instagram at @hinamirza.

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“Should I tell them about my past?” It’s the question that makes every single Muslim pause. And let’s be real, our communities don’t make it easier. Men often get a pass, while women get judged twice as hard for the same mistakes.

In this episode, we confront the myths and double standards around sharing your past in marriage conversations. What must be disclosed, and what belongs between you and Allah? And how do you talk about sensitive topics without trauma dumping or oversharing? If you’ve ever feared your past would ruin your future, this episode flips the script and puts the focus back where it belongs: who you are today.

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