We’ve all had moments where curiosity gets the better of us, but when it comes to asking personal questions about gender identity, the line between interest and intrusion can blur fast.

In this episode of Gender in Focus, Kai and El unpack why curiosity isn’t neutral, especially in the workplace. From “What’s your real name?” to “Have you had 'the' surgery?”, they explore why these questions come up, how power dynamics shape what feels optional, and what respectful curiosity actually looks like.

They discuss how to balance authenticity with professionalism, why some topics can be off-limits at work, and how to build trust without overstepping. Along the way, they share thoughtful insights about intent vs. impact, privacy, but also what to do when you’re the one feeling uncomfortable.

Whether you’re an ally, a leader or just trying to get it right, this episode offers a grounded take on how to navigate awkward moments, respect boundaries and create workplaces where trans and non-binary people feel safe, seen, and supported.

Key themes: trans inclusion, non-binary inclusion, allyship, workplace boundaries, respectful communication, diversity equity and inclusion, workplace curiosity, DEI strategies, gender diversity, inclusive workplaces

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